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“High School vs College and Home vs Dorm” by Caitlin Dong
Here is a BRAND NEW blog entry from Caitlin Dong, ForCarol.com’s 2011 College Scholarship winner.
Caitlin is now attending U.C. Berkeley (….Berzerkeley….I just had to do it!). :-)
Enjoy!
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College life is undoubtedly different from high school/home life in many ways. While college life and living on your own is exciting and fun, nothing really beats going home for a few days. Here is a list of various areas in which living at home and living in the dorms differ – they are randomly listed, depending on when I randomly thought of each one
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Category |
Life at Home/In High School |
Dorm/College Life |
| Bathroom Issues | You sit directly on a toilet seat & go about your business with complete privacy. | You scout out who’s in the bathroom, set up three layers of toilet seat covers, and the silence is continually interrupted by people coming into and out of the bathroom. |
| Shower Time | You take a shower barefoot. | You shower wearing shower shoes. |
| FOOD | You can ravage the refrigerator at any hour of the day/night. | You can’t fit more than a miniature ice cream carton in your freezer. |
| FOOD | You eat real food. | You eat food that looks real. |
| Transportation | You drive everywhere. | You walk or take the bus…if you’re lucky, the bus driver won’t leave you behind. |
| Bathroom Issues | You can wake up and pee at 2 in the morning. | You can’t force yourself to get out of bed, grab your key, be blinded by the hallway lights, be blinded again by the bathroom lights, line the toilet seat, do your business, wash your hands, and successfully make it back to your bed without tripping over something on your way back into your room. |
| Personal Hygiene | You can walk barefoot around the house. | You don’t know what the carpet in your dorm room as been through, so you always wear socks or slippers. |
| Automatic Lock | You can’t get locked out of your room. | You have to sit in the hallway, waiting for your roommate come back and let you in. |
| Winter = Cold | The heater in your house comes on when the air temperature drops below a certain point. | You don’t even realize you have control of the heat in your room until two weeks before the end of the semester. |
| Shower Time | You can leave your clothes in your room or put them somewhere where they will stay dry in the bathroom when you decide to take a shower. | You go into the shower clothed, shower, and then put your clothes on before you come out of the shower. |
| Bathroom Issues | You have control of the light in the bathroom. | You have the light turned off on you while you’re in the bathroom. |
| Laundry | You sort your laundry and then wash. | You throw everything you can possibly fit into the washer/dryer because you don’t want to pay more than you have to. |
| People | You know who you live with. | At the end of the semester, you’re still trying to figure out who lives on your floor. |
| Shower Time | You can adjust the water temperature of the shower. | The water temperature does whatever the heck it wants. |
| Grubbin’ | You wash your dishes after eating. | You don’t have to wash dishes! The moving dish rack takes them away. |
| Room Accommodations | You can open your window without fear of falling out. | When you open the window for some fresh air, be careful. There are no window screens. |
| Parentals | You know that, if you oversleep, your parents are bound to wake you up or check on you. | You’re on your own. Hopefully, you’re responsive to your alarm and don’t become a professional in turning off your alarm while sleeping. |
| Animal Kingdom | There are scrawny squirrels that run away when you approach. | Squirrels will literally walk up to you & steal your food. They are scary. |
I’m sure there are many more I’m forgetting, but hopefully you got a few smiles out of these ones. Everyone is bound to have different experiences, but I would suppose that some of these college adventures are or will turn out to be somewhat similar
“College Thus Far :-)” by Caitlin Dong
Note: Caitlin Dong was the first recipient of the Carol Phan College Scholarship. She is now attending U.C. Berkeley. Thank you, Caitlin, for this update and the kind words at the end of your blog entry. You rock! :-)
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Sitting here, I realized that I am about to start my tenth week of college. That’s insane. On the one hand, it feels as if I’ve always been here in Berkeley, but on the other hand, it seems as if I just moved in yesterday. Though, moving in yesterday would be quite impossible given everything that’s happened in the past two months.
Since Berkeley is one of two UC schools on a semester schedule, I moved in only a week after
school started in Tracy. Despite the fact that a majority of my friends had another month off, I was actually content because I felt ready to start school again after a completely relaxed and lazy summer. To be blunt, I had a buttload of stuff to move into my dorm room; I think my dad was relieved once our living room was able to breathe again. We packed out our family van, took two cars, and off we went. After signing in upon arriving at my dorm complex, my family and I made multiple trips to move in my stuff. As I walked down the
hallway, I practically passed by my room, as the plaque on the wall next to the door said “study lounge” – naturally, you’d think it was a study lounge, right? Yeah, don’t think so. My dorm room is a converted study lounge, though it is practically the same size as all of the other rooms in the building. Anyway, after a couple of hours, I was all moved in. My roommate did not come until later, but I was relieved when she showed up. I was not about to sleep
all alone in this room all by myself the very first night.
One of the first things my roommate, Heather, and I were forced to adjust to was the fact that we had to walk everywhere. For me, this was a particularly difficult adjustment. During the summer, I would literally walk down the street to get the mail and I would be exhausted, aha. Here, though, I just had to / have to suck it up and walk. However, I’m thankful because I definitely needed the exercise, and I hope my calves will be strong by the end of these four years – or by the end of this semester.
The first few days in Berkeley were designated to getting acclimated to living here and what not. Welcome activities and events were held, and we didn’t start school until Thursday of that week. Of course, I would get an infection in my mouth and look like a chipmunk…the day before school started. I was beyond stressed, as I had to call a dentist, figure out what was wrong, go to the health center, and get penicillin…the whole shindig. I was so used to having my mom take care of things like that. To say the least, it stunk. Just a month earlier, I had gotten all four of my impacted wisdom teeth out, but after a couple of weeks, the oral surgeon said that everything was healing and looked good to go. What a lie. After I was finished with that dose of antibiotics, I was rather relieved. But that was short-lived. Two and a half weeks later, I was swollen out again. This time, though, I went home to Tracy and visited the oral surgeon. The next week, I had an operation, and I also had to go home the weekend after for my follow-up appointment. I’d like to believe that I’m on my way to a full recovery this time
I am truly grateful that a handful of close friends also go to UC Berkeley. They are always there for support, especially in times of need. While I have made new friends, found study buddies, and settled into a routine, just knowing that a high school friend is close by and available is reassuring. Then again, I also love my roommate. I think I lucked out; I have not had to
experience any of that “I hate my roommate” drama. The fact that we get along so well makes my freshman experience all the more enjoyable and memorable. After the second week of school, we took the public bus (which is free for students!) and bought a pinkish/purplish/bluish betta fish, who we loving named Little Buddy
Since I’ve been here, I haven’t spent too much money. More than half of what I’ve spent was spent on, well, textbooks. Holy cow. My jaw dropped when I paid for all of my textbooks – people really aren’t lying when they say that $200 may or may not pay for a semester’s worth of books. Other than that, I don’t really eat out all that much. I mostly grab my food at the dining common or from other places around campus that accept meal points. What I’ve learned is that I can get a take-out box by paying $0.75 more than if I were to actually eat at the dining common and I can fit practically three meals in there. Sounds like a deal to me.
Academically, the transition from high school to college was not a shock. I feel as if the workload is comparable; while I am in class for less time here, there is more work to do for each class. Therefore, it just all evens out. I will say, though, that you do have to adjust to each of your classes and what exactly each professor expects out of you and of your work. Nevertheless, you learn to adjust, seek help, and improve. I’ve also gotten into the habit of getting work done in between classes. I sit on the benches in the lecture halls outside of the lecture rooms. Everyone else around me is also working, so I’m surprisingly productive. I have not gone to the library to work and study; I normally do my homework and what not in my room or in one of the study lounges in my building.
One of the perks of going to college is being presented with opportunities to see/meet people, such as John Cho, Maxine Hong Kingston, Jane Lynch, and Johnny Depp. John Cho and
Maxine Hong Kingston, along with a couple of others, came for an event called “Dreaming in Different Tongues: Languages and the Way We Think.” Jane Lynch was in Berkeley in order to give a talk and for a book signing for her newly published work, Happy Accidents. My sister is a huge fan of Jane Lynch, so I ended up getting a signed copy of the book for her. It was surreal to talk to Jane Lynch in person – actually, it was pretty darn cool, if you ask me. While I didn’t attend the Johnny Depp event, I know a number of people that did.
I’ve been going to the Recreational Sports Facility at least a few times a week. After paying for the $10 semester membership, there are over a hundred classes available for me to attend each week. So far, I’ve been to zumba, cardio hip hop, cardio dance, pilates, cardio kickboxing, and stepography. Going to these classes is a fun way to relieve stress and also get some exercise. Each of the instructors has so much energy, so I’m always in for a good workout.
Just earlier this week, the fire alarm in my building went off not one, not two, but three times in one day. Talk about fire alarm malfunctions. But I guess that’s dorm life for you. Dorm life, while it has worked out quite nicely for me, makes me appreciate being home when I go back
for the weekend. I don’t have to wear shower shoes, I eat real food, and, though I thought I’d never really say this, I miss good ole Tracy. However, I’m glad I was able to participate in The Berkeley Project Day with some of my Tracy friends. Doing some community service was fun and rewarding!
The transition into an urban area has been interesting; there are always people wandering about and it seems as if there is always something going on. Street vendors line the streets on the weekends and the line for ice cream sandwiches measures at least half a block. Since I’ve been here, I’ve come to love and embrace my independence, and college has been an overall positive experience thus far. I’m sure there’s much more that I’m forgetting at this point, but you’re probably tired of reading this anyway, so thanks for reading, aha
And, I’d also like to give thanks again to everyone involved in the Carol Phan Scholarship effort; every little bit of money definitely counts and makes a difference!
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Drive Safe! Never Forget.
California College’s Salary Potential
Lori showed me this link on the University of the Pacific web site.
In there, UOP (Pacific) states that Payscale.com has ranked Pacific graduates as #5 in salary potential among tons of California universities. We (I say, we, because Kristen goes to UOP) even beat Berzerkely and Cal Poly! I’m shocked….really, I am.
Pretty cool. (Go here for some virtual tours and pics of some local colleges).
Here are the Top 20. Go here to see the complete list.
| Best Schools in California By Salary Potential – Full List | ||
| STARTING MEDIAN SALARY | MID-CAREER MEDIAN SALARY | |
| California Institute of Technology (Caltech) | $69,600 | $123,000 |
| Harvey Mudd College | $64,400 | $121,000 |
| Stanford University | $58,200 | $112,000 |
| Santa Clara University | $52,900 | $105,000 |
| University of the Pacific, Stockton, CA | $50,100 | $103,000 |
| University of California, Berkeley | $51,400 | $102,000 |
| Claremont McKenna College | $54,400 | $98,000 |
| University of Southern California (USC) | $50,200 | $97,800 |
| University of California, San Diego (UCSD) | $48,200 | $96,700 |
| California Polytechnic State University, San Luis Obispo (CalPoly) | $54,200 | $95,700 |
| California College of the Arts | $44,800 | $94,300 |
| California State Polytechnic University, Pomona | $47,600 | $92,700 |
| University of California at Los Angeles (UCLA) | $49,200 | $91,100 |
| Pomona College | $47,000 | $91,100 |
| University of California, Santa Barbara (UCSB) | $47,300 | $91,000 |
| San Jose State University (SJSU) | $50,900 | $90,900 |
| University of California, Irvine (UCI) | $44,800 | $90,600 |
| Occidental College | $42,200 | $90,300 |
| Saint Mary’s College of California | $45,700 | $89,600 |
| University of California, Riverside (UCR) | $43,900 | $88,800 |
| Loyola Marymount University | $44,100 | $87,900 |
| University of Redlands | $46,100 | $87,700 |
| Westmont College | $35,600 | $87,400 |
| University of San Francisco (USF) | $49,500 | $87,100 |
| University of California, Davis (UC Davis) | $47,600 | $87,100 |
| University of San Diego (USD) | $44,500 | $85,100 |
| California State University (CSU), Chico | $45,700 | $84,400 |
| Pepperdine University | $44,600 | $83,200 |
| California State University, Long Beach (CSULB) | $42,400 | $82,900 |
| San Diego State University (SDSU) | $43,500 | $82,800 |
| California State University, Sacramento (CSUS) | $43,800 | $82,600 |
| California State University, Northridge (CSUN) | $42,900 | $82,200 |
| University of California, Santa Cruz (UCSC) | $42,900 | $81,700 |
| California State University, Fullerton (CSUF) | $42,100 | $81,200 |
| National University | $49,000 | $80,200 |
| Loma Linda University | $64,600 | $79,900 |
| San Francisco State University (SFSU) | $46,200 | $79,400 |
| Concordia University at Irvine | $37,800 | $79,200 |
| California State University, East Bay (CSUEB) | $47,900 | $78,900 |
| Chapman University | $41,100 | $78,700 |
| Biola University | $40,000 | $78,300 |
| University of La Verne | $39,600 | $78,200 |
| Academy of Art University | $45,100 | $77,900 |
| California State University, Los Angeles (CSULA) | $44,100 | $77,900 |
| Point Loma Nazarene College | $37,400 | $77,600 |
| Art Center College of Design | $49,300 | $77,200 |
| California Lutheran University (CLU) | $45,300 | $77,000 |
| California State University (CSU), Fresno (Fresno State) | $41,100 | $75,200 |
| Sonoma State University | $44,800 | $74,600 |
| Humboldt State University | $39,500 | $74,200 |
| Mount St. Mary’s College | $45,500 | $73,700 |
| Pacific Union College (PUC) | $46,400 | $73,000 |
| Whittier College | $42,900 | $72,900 |
| California State University, Dominguez Hills (CSUDH) | $40,800 | $71,900 |
| Woodbury University | $40,700 | $71,700 |
| California State University (CSU), Stanislaus | $39,500 | $70,000 |
| Pitzer College | $39,500 | $69,600 |
| California State University, San Bernardino (CSUSB) | $39,800 | $69,500 |
| California State University, San Marcos (CSUSM) | $40,200 | $68,400 |
| TUI University | $46,700 | $67,400 |
| Thomas Aquinas College | $37,600 | $66,000 |
| Azusa Pacific University | $39,200 | $65,300 |
| California State University, Bakersfield (CSUB) | $45,200 | $63,100 |
Did I say the top 20…hmmm, I guess they gave me them all. Oh well….
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Drive Safe! Never Forget.








