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“High School vs College and Home vs Dorm” by Caitlin Dong

Here is a BRAND NEW blog entry from Caitlin Dong, ForCarol.com’s 2011 College Scholarship  winner.

Caitlin is now attending U.C. Berkeley (….Berzerkeley….I just had to do it!).  :-)

Enjoy!

College life is undoubtedly different from high school/home life in many ways. While college life and living on your own is exciting and fun, nothing really beats going home for a few days. Here is a list of various areas in which living at home and living in the dorms differ – they are randomly listed, depending on when I randomly thought of each one

Category

Life at Home/In High School

Dorm/College Life

Bathroom Issues You sit directly on a toilet seat & go about your business with complete privacy. You scout out who’s in the bathroom, set up three layers of toilet seat covers, and the silence is continually interrupted by people coming into and out of the bathroom.
Shower Time You take a shower barefoot. You shower wearing shower shoes.
FOOD You can ravage the refrigerator at any hour of the day/night. You can’t fit more than a miniature ice cream carton in your freezer.
FOOD You eat real food. You eat food that looks real.
Transportation You drive everywhere. You walk or take the bus…if you’re lucky, the bus driver won’t leave you behind.
Bathroom Issues You can wake up and pee at 2 in the morning. You can’t force yourself to get out of bed, grab your key, be blinded by the hallway lights, be blinded again by the bathroom lights, line the toilet seat, do your business, wash your hands, and successfully make it back to your bed without tripping over something on your way back into your room.
Personal Hygiene You can walk barefoot around the house. You don’t know what the carpet in your dorm room as been through, so you always wear socks or slippers.
Automatic Lock You can’t get locked out of your room. You have to sit in the hallway, waiting for your roommate come back and let you in.
Winter = Cold The heater in your house comes on when the air temperature drops below a certain point. You don’t even realize you have control of the heat in your room until two weeks before the end of the semester.
Shower Time You can leave your clothes in your room or put them somewhere where they will stay dry in the bathroom when you decide to take a shower. You go into the shower clothed, shower, and then put your clothes on before you come out of the shower.
Bathroom Issues You have control of the light in the bathroom. You have the light turned off on you while you’re in the bathroom.
Laundry You sort your laundry and then wash. You throw everything you can possibly fit into the washer/dryer because you don’t want to pay more than you have to.
People You know who you live with. At the end of the semester, you’re still trying to figure out who lives on your floor.
Shower Time You can adjust the water temperature of the shower. The water temperature does whatever the heck it wants.
Grubbin’ You wash your dishes after eating. You don’t have to wash dishes! The moving dish rack takes them away.
Room Accommodations You can open your window without fear of falling out. When you open the window for some fresh air, be careful. There are no window screens.
Parentals You know that, if you oversleep, your parents are bound to wake you up or check on you. You’re on your own. Hopefully, you’re responsive to your alarm and don’t become a professional in turning off your alarm while sleeping.
Animal Kingdom There are scrawny squirrels that run away when you approach. Squirrels will literally walk up to you & steal your food. They are scary.

I’m sure there are many more I’m forgetting, but hopefully you got a few smiles out of these ones. Everyone is bound to have different experiences, but I would suppose that some of these college adventures are or will turn out to be somewhat similar

“College Thus Far :-)” by Caitlin Dong

Note:  Caitlin Dong was the first recipient of the Carol Phan College Scholarship.  She is now attending U.C. Berkeley.  Thank you, Caitlin, for this update and the kind words at the end of your blog entry.  You rock!  :-)

Sitting here, I realized that I am about to start my tenth week of college. That’s insane. On the one hand, it feels as if I’ve always been here in Berkeley, but on the other hand, it seems as if I just moved in yesterday. Though, moving in yesterday would be quite impossible given everything that’s happened in the past two months.

Since Berkeley is one of two UC schools on a semester schedule, I moved in only a week after school started in Tracy. Despite the fact that a majority of my friends had another month off, I was actually content because I felt ready to start school again after a completely relaxed and lazy summer. To be blunt, I had a buttload of stuff to move into my dorm room; I think my dad was relieved once our living room was able to breathe again. We packed out our family van, took two cars, and off we went. After signing in upon arriving at my dorm complex, my family and I made multiple trips to move in my stuff. As I walked down the hallway, I practically passed by my room, as the plaque on the wall next to the door said “study lounge” – naturally, you’d think it was a study lounge, right? Yeah, don’t think so. My dorm room is a converted study lounge, though it is practically the same size as all of the other rooms in the building. Anyway, after a couple of hours, I was all moved in. My roommate did not come until later, but I was relieved when she showed up. I was not about to sleep all alone in this room all by myself the very first night.

One of the first things my roommate, Heather, and I were forced to adjust to was the fact that we had to walk everywhere. For me, this was a particularly difficult adjustment. During the summer, I would literally walk down the street to get the mail and I would be exhausted, aha. Here, though, I just had to / have to suck it up and walk. However, I’m thankful because I definitely needed the exercise, and I hope my calves will be strong by the end of these four years – or by the end of this semester.

The first few days in Berkeley were designated to getting acclimated to living here and what not. Welcome activities and events were held, and we didn’t start school until Thursday of that week. Of course, I would get an infection in my mouth and look like a chipmunk…the day before school started. I was beyond stressed, as I had to call a dentist, figure out what was wrong, go to the health center, and get penicillin…the whole shindig. I was so used to having my mom take care of things like that. To say the least, it stunk. Just a month earlier, I had gotten all four of my impacted wisdom teeth out, but after a couple of weeks, the oral surgeon said that everything was healing and looked good to go. What a lie. After I was finished with that dose of antibiotics, I was rather relieved. But that was short-lived. Two and a half weeks later, I was swollen out again. This time, though, I went home to Tracy and visited the oral surgeon. The next week, I had an operation, and I also had to go home the weekend after for my follow-up appointment. I’d like to believe that I’m on my way to a full recovery this time ;)

I am truly grateful that a handful of close friends also go to UC Berkeley. They are always there for support, especially in times of need. While I have made new friends, found study buddies, and settled into a routine, just knowing that a high school friend is close by and available is reassuring. Then again, I also love my roommate. I think I lucked out; I have not had to experience any of that “I hate my roommate” drama. The fact that we get along so well makes my freshman experience all the more enjoyable and memorable. After the second week of school, we took the public bus (which is free for students!) and bought a pinkish/purplish/bluish betta fish, who we loving named Little Buddy :)

Since I’ve been here, I haven’t spent too much money. More than half of what I’ve spent was spent on, well, textbooks. Holy cow. My jaw dropped when I paid for all of my textbooks – people really aren’t lying when they say that $200 may or may not pay for a semester’s worth of books. Other than that, I don’t really eat out all that much. I mostly grab my food at the dining common or from other places around campus that accept meal points. What I’ve learned is that I can get a take-out box by paying $0.75 more than if I were to actually eat at the dining common and I can fit practically three meals in there. Sounds like a deal to me.

Academically, the transition from high school to college was not a shock. I feel as if the workload is comparable; while I am in class for less time here, there is more work to do for each class. Therefore, it just all evens out. I will say, though, that you do have to adjust to each of your classes and what exactly each professor expects out of you and of your work. Nevertheless, you learn to adjust, seek help, and improve. I’ve also gotten into the habit of getting work done in between classes. I sit on the benches in the lecture halls outside of the lecture rooms. Everyone else around me is also working, so I’m surprisingly productive. I have not gone to the library to work and study; I normally do my homework and what not in my room or in one of the study lounges in my building.

One of the perks of going to college is being presented with opportunities to see/meet people, such as John Cho, Maxine Hong Kingston, Jane Lynch, and Johnny Depp. John Cho and Maxine Hong Kingston, along with a couple of others, came for an event called “Dreaming in Different Tongues: Languages and the Way We Think.” Jane Lynch was in Berkeley in order to give a talk and for a book signing for her newly published work, Happy Accidents. My sister is a huge fan of Jane Lynch, so I ended up getting a signed copy of the book for her. It was surreal to talk to Jane Lynch in person – actually, it was pretty darn cool, if you ask me. While I didn’t attend the Johnny Depp event, I know a number of people that did.

I’ve been going to the Recreational Sports Facility at least a few times a week. After paying for the $10 semester membership, there are over a hundred classes available for me to attend each week. So far, I’ve been to zumba, cardio hip hop, cardio dance, pilates, cardio kickboxing, and stepography. Going to these classes is a fun way to relieve stress and also get some exercise. Each of the instructors has so much energy, so I’m always in for a good workout.

Just earlier this week, the fire alarm in my building went off not one, not two, but three times in one day. Talk about fire alarm malfunctions. But I guess that’s dorm life for you. Dorm life, while it has worked out quite nicely for me, makes me appreciate being home when I go back for the weekend. I don’t have to wear shower shoes, I eat real food, and, though I thought I’d never really say this, I miss good ole Tracy. However, I’m glad I was able to participate in The Berkeley Project Day with some of my Tracy friends. Doing some community service was fun and rewarding!

The transition into an urban area has been interesting; there are always people wandering about and it seems as if there is always something going on. Street vendors line the streets on the weekends and the line for ice cream sandwiches measures at least half a block. Since I’ve been here, I’ve come to love and embrace my independence, and college has been an overall positive experience thus far. I’m sure there’s much more that I’m forgetting at this point, but you’re probably tired of reading this anyway, so thanks for reading, aha :) And, I’d also like to give thanks again to everyone involved in the Carol Phan Scholarship effort; every little bit of money definitely counts and makes a difference!

Drive Safe!  Never Forget.

California College’s Salary Potential

Lori showed me this link on the University of the Pacific web site.

In there, UOP (Pacific) states that Payscale.com has ranked Pacific graduates as #5 in salary potential among tons of California universities.  We (I say, we, because Kristen goes to UOP) even beat Berzerkely and Cal Poly!  I’m shocked….really, I am.

Pretty cool.  (Go here for some virtual tours and pics of some local colleges).

Here are the Top 20.   Go here to see the complete list.  

Best Schools in California By Salary Potential – Full List
STARTING MEDIAN SALARY MID-CAREER MEDIAN SALARY
California Institute of Technology (Caltech) $69,600 $123,000
Harvey Mudd College $64,400 $121,000
Stanford University $58,200 $112,000
Santa Clara University $52,900 $105,000
University of the Pacific, Stockton, CA $50,100 $103,000
University of California, Berkeley $51,400 $102,000
Claremont McKenna College $54,400 $98,000
University of Southern California (USC) $50,200 $97,800
University of California, San Diego (UCSD) $48,200 $96,700
California Polytechnic State University, San Luis Obispo (CalPoly) $54,200 $95,700
California College of the Arts $44,800 $94,300
California State Polytechnic University, Pomona $47,600 $92,700
University of California at Los Angeles (UCLA) $49,200 $91,100
Pomona College $47,000 $91,100
University of California, Santa Barbara (UCSB) $47,300 $91,000
San Jose State University (SJSU) $50,900 $90,900
University of California, Irvine (UCI) $44,800 $90,600
Occidental College $42,200 $90,300
Saint Mary’s College of California $45,700 $89,600
University of California, Riverside (UCR) $43,900 $88,800
Loyola Marymount University $44,100 $87,900
University of Redlands $46,100 $87,700
Westmont College $35,600 $87,400
University of San Francisco (USF) $49,500 $87,100
University of California, Davis (UC Davis) $47,600 $87,100
University of San Diego (USD) $44,500 $85,100
California State University (CSU), Chico $45,700 $84,400
Pepperdine University $44,600 $83,200
California State University, Long Beach (CSULB) $42,400 $82,900
San Diego State University (SDSU) $43,500 $82,800
California State University, Sacramento (CSUS) $43,800 $82,600
California State University, Northridge (CSUN) $42,900 $82,200
University of California, Santa Cruz (UCSC) $42,900 $81,700
California State University, Fullerton (CSUF) $42,100 $81,200
National University $49,000 $80,200
Loma Linda University $64,600 $79,900
San Francisco State University (SFSU) $46,200 $79,400
Concordia University at Irvine $37,800 $79,200
California State University, East Bay (CSUEB) $47,900 $78,900
Chapman University $41,100 $78,700
Biola University $40,000 $78,300
University of La Verne $39,600 $78,200
Academy of Art University $45,100 $77,900
California State University, Los Angeles (CSULA) $44,100 $77,900
Point Loma Nazarene College $37,400 $77,600
Art Center College of Design $49,300 $77,200
California Lutheran University (CLU) $45,300 $77,000
California State University (CSU), Fresno (Fresno State) $41,100 $75,200
Sonoma State University $44,800 $74,600
Humboldt State University $39,500 $74,200
Mount St. Mary’s College $45,500 $73,700
Pacific Union College (PUC) $46,400 $73,000
Whittier College $42,900 $72,900
California State University, Dominguez Hills (CSUDH) $40,800 $71,900
Woodbury University $40,700 $71,700
California State University (CSU), Stanislaus $39,500 $70,000
Pitzer College $39,500 $69,600
California State University, San Bernardino (CSUSB) $39,800 $69,500
California State University, San Marcos (CSUSM) $40,200 $68,400
TUI University $46,700 $67,400
Thomas Aquinas College $37,600 $66,000
Azusa Pacific University $39,200 $65,300
California State University, Bakersfield (CSUB) $45,200 $63,100

Did I say the top 20…hmmm, I guess they gave me them all.  Oh well…. :-)


Drive Safe! Never Forget.